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How to Get Out Of an Abusive Relationship

Domestic violence currently affects nearly 10 million people in the U.S. Do you really want to be part of that statistic? You aren’t just a number. You deserve to live a life free from fear. Getting out of an abusive relationship is not easy. However, you can make a break for freedom and a better life by following these tips.

Step 1 – Recognize Abuse

Abuse is not relegated to hits and blows. Emotional abuse can cause more damage than physical altercations can and the effects can be long term. It can take the form of humiliation, controlling, and intimidating behavior. It can also be sexual in nature. If you don’t consent to sex and are forced into it, that is also abuse.

Besides emotional abuse, financial abuse can also take a toll on your peace of mind.  It is also one of the most difficult forms of abuse to spot and usually involves the abuser taking control of your finances. This can be anything from taking your income (and refusing to work because you pay for everything), limiting your work hours, gaining control of bank accounts, etc. In other words, it is a violation of the financial autonomy that you deserve to retain. 

Step 2 – Make a Plan 

A complete plan to leave an abusive relationship will give you the courage you need to see your escape through. Here are some things you need to incorporate in it and follow through on:

Determine a safe place to go to – Decide on a code word you can use to tell a friend or family member you trust that you are in danger and are headed to them. 

Keep an extra cell phone with you – Use another cell phone to make that call or your partner may be able to trace you. Get the prepaid variety from a domestic violence shelter.

Make a list of things you should take with you – Besides cash, this includes important documents such as your kids’ birth certificates, social security card, passports among others. 

An abusive relationship never ends well for the victim. After you make your escape, filing for a divorce is the next best thing you can do for your and your kids’ peace of mind. No need to Google ‘family law attorney near me.’ Just get in touch with Dan Walker. He is a licensed lawyer in Hinsdale, IL who has more than 45 years of experience and who can advocate for you in court to ensure justice is served. Get in touch with him at the Dan Walker Law Office today. 

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